Love is…

1 Jun

Love is powerful. The definition in Websters cannot define the way one may feel when they decide to love. Everyone has their own definition. What’s your definition?

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8 Responses to “Love is…”

  1. @TGIFhaas June 1, 2010 at 2:14 pm #

    LOVE IS DEFINITELY A HARD WORD TO DEFINE….SO MANY TWISTED WAYS TO PUT IT….SO MANY BOOKS, MOVIES, SONGS, POEMS, ETC ETC, VALENTINES DAY, FLOWERS, KISSING…INTIMACY..SO MANY IDEAS ON LOVE…I DONT KNOW…LOVE IS UNIQUE…LOVE IS BASED OFF THE INDIVIDUAL..???..IDK…SO I GUESS…MY DEFINITION IS THAT LIL FEELING I GOT WHEN I FIRST CAME INTO 1S61(INTERMEDIATE SCHOOL)…I MET THIS ONE GIRL…THAT REALLY MADE LOVE SEEM SO REAL..I WAS SO YOUNG AND FAR FROM AN ANSWER…THE SAME WAY IM FAR FROM THE ANSWER…TO WHATS YOUR DEFINITION OF LOVE? BUT THAT FEELING I HAD BACK THEN…THE BUTTERFLYS…TALKIN ON THE PHONE FOR HOURS AND NOT SAYING ANYTHING TO MAKE A CONVERSATION LAST THAT LONG…STAYING ON THE PHONE WAITING FOR HER TO HANG UP…LIKE U HANG UP..NO U HANG UP…FALLING TO SLEEP ON THE PHONE…IDK…ANXIOUS TO SEE HER THE NEXT DAY IN CLASS, IN THE HALLWAYS, AT LUNCH!!! IDK…LOVE IS LOVE!!! LOVE IS PEACE!!!

  2. Cecil June 1, 2010 at 3:21 pm #

    Love doesn’t look out for its own interest. You can define love within yourself when you start having feelings of wanting to do for the other person more than yourself. When your out and you want those shoes, and you say let me get her or him this instead – That is unselfish love.
    Love is patient – if you meet a young lady or man and you have some interest to make it last – you won’t have interest to define the relationship by sex. Neither party would be pushy. Love is also patient when one party may have goals the other doesn’t. Love will cause you to be patient and allow time for your partner to reach out for those goals. It won’t get upset when they have to study or attend class – Which leads me to –
    Love Builds Up – People with money, love to have money in the bank and gain interest – “Mo Money” Instinctively we all want more – so if I am in a relationship, and I am a 8 – why do I want to get with you and stay an 8 – or God forbid you make me a 7. Love builds up – so we should be good all by ourselves, but when in a relationship – we should be a force when we together!
    Love does not keep account of injury. If you are always throwing stuff in your partners face – you don’t love – if you can’t forget simple wrongs – you don’t love. Keeping simple imperfections of your spouse in mind hurt you more than them. Whether we are looking to enter a new relationship or stay in the present – we “Must Love Like We Have Never Been Hurt Before” If you can’t do that – Like Jay –Z said – “On to Da Next One”. I am not encouraging anyone to leave – I am encouraging forgiveness.
    Love is not Jealous – Love will never compete with its partner – love doesn’t get upset when your partner gets praise from others – it joins in. Love doesn’t get upset when its partner accomplish something – or reaches that goal we spoke about above. Love doesn’t get jealous when a person of the opposite sex gives our partner a compliment – it thinks – I feel the same way – that is why they mine – look but don’t touch! Jealousy is like acid – it will eat away at every relationship until it is down to the bone – then the relationship is dead.
    Lastly – Love does not behave indecently – plain and simple, if your contemplating cheating, thinking about it, a passing thought, a flirtatious conversation, going out for drinks with the opposite sex and its like – shhhhh – my partner can’t know. If your partner can’t know – then you shouldn’t go. If your reason for not telling them is because they are jealous – then guess what – they don’t love – you don’t have love – your relationship is not build on Love. By the way Lil Lady – You mentioned Webster – well he Loved his wife, stayed faithful and had 8 kids – I think he knows a little bit about Love.

  3. lazavia June 1, 2010 at 5:10 pm #

    Love is when u miss the person before you’ve even left their presence. Its when you can look into their eyes and see forever. Love is a state of mind. You could date a murderer and love would make u find all of the good qualities that he/she posseses.(Hopefully we arent into murderers lol) when you’re in love with someone you can be yourself around them without thinkin about it. You say and do silly things you never thought you would. You learn not only about the other person but about yourself as well. Love is beautiful. There can’t be a specific definition. What I do know is once you truely love someone, the love will never end even if the realationship ends. Love makes all possible

  4. S. Romano June 1, 2010 at 9:29 pm #

    Love is finding someone that brings such meaning and such fulfillment to your life that you wonder how you ever went without them.

  5. supawumyn June 2, 2010 at 3:22 pm #

    LOVE – I am in full agreement with Cecil. No other words can be better than how he broke it down.

  6. Talisha June 4, 2010 at 1:47 pm #

    But love is what i saw my parents have growing up.Then I was hit by Love and it is so much more than that. Its actually what cecil explains he hits it out the park with this one!!!5 Thumbs up only if i had the bbm thumbs i would put them up.lol

  7. Talisha June 4, 2010 at 1:54 pm #

    Love is something you work at for a lifetime. Not once you have the person you can chill and relax and just feel that the hard work is not necessary any more. I feel that’s the problem people get to comfortable and think that he or she will be around for every.Love is a working progress.You should try to learn something new about your love one everyday That’s why communication is so important!!! Ok now I’m done lololol…

  8. dominique June 5, 2010 at 6:44 pm #

    love is..loving someone no matter going in head first and not caring what anyone says love is giving it ur all

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