One Saturday morning I was listening to a radio morning show and this was the question that was asked? Are you truly always in love with someone once you fall in love with them, even if you are not together? Was it even love if you fell out of love with them? You can occasionally have thoughts and miss the memories if you fall into the category of being separated from the one you are in love with. You miss the good times you both shared. You miss how things were in the beginning when you first got together. Even the first year of the relationship was beyond amazing. But was this outweighed by too many bad times? Was it the constant bickering and arguing about nonsense that separated the two of you? Was it the constant comparing of ex partners and spouses? Was it the constant abuse that pulled you two apart, whether it be domestic, verbal, mental, it doesn’t matter, was this the reason the two of you are no longer together? Was it the constant accusations of cheating and jealousy? I guess the question that should be asked is, are you always IN love with them forever or will you always HAVE love for them forever?
There was a reason for the two of you to be separated or you have already discussed becoming separated or one party is having thoughts of separating. Maybe, you are still with this person and you feel you can never be in love with another ever again. So you stay with this person because of the love you two once shared and deal with all the pain, hurt, and sorrow because he or she will change. Of course this is what you think will happen. There are some who dislike one another for years into their marriage and then are blissfully in love many years after. You can’t imagine life without this person yet wonder what your life would be like without them.
So which one is it? Which one do you think it is? When you fall in love with someone, are you always in love with them forever or will you always have love for them forever?
Nadie La La